THE ONE

Have you met the one? 

What is she/he like? 

How do you know if you've met them? 

I know because I've met "the one" let's add an s to that. I've met several personalities, each one not perfect or better than the other but are 'the one' in different ways. See I'm the kind of person who lives by the moment. The smallest of things excite me. My interests are every where. I need consistency in my life which is something I can't give to myself so I need 'the one' to give me that. My person has to then be or possess a number of qualities. I'm a happy person, he has to keep that joy going. How I see it, my perfect man should be smart- know your stuff so I'm forever impressed. Be able to make conversation regarding anything. Be funny- no one likes a bland person. Be imaginative-dreams do come true. Hardworking. Not noisy. Calm. Humble. Someone who isn't afraid to express himself/ feelings. One that exerts his dominance in a subtle kind of way. Don't get me wrong, I can't stand arrogance in whatever form. But a man that knows how to get what he wants is attractive. But I also want a man who will chase me not that I'll run (I know what's good for me) but a man that will forever make me feel like he just met me. Someone who will love me without holding back because I would love him so much more. All this I want but companionship is what I seek for. The beauty of companionship is one not everybody can explain to you. It comes to you as differently as it will another. There is no one objective definition or character that makes someone perfect. If and when you find 'the one' you will realize that perfection does not exist. You will accept and love this person as they come. Flaws and all. If perfection existed, love will have just been a four letter word. To me it is more than that. 'I love you' means I see the beautiful and ugly in you. It is me committing my all to make what we have work. I will fight you and fight the forces that will deny me you. Why? Because it is just not a four letter word for me. It is my life and you are what keeps me going. If today I find out the cells in a part of my body were going against my nature and become cancerous, I will not just sit and watch myself die away. I will fight till the very end. I will fight for you because what is this life without someone to share it with. If you hurt me I will fight you and fight for what we have until you realize why we started this in the first place. My 'the one' will be my best friend and best friends don't just up and leave because my waist isn't small enough or my skin isn't light enough. Best friends stay around when the superficial wears away. My 'the one' will know my worth and I his. Silence will be comfortable because all we need to converse is a smile and our eyes. Sixty years in my 'one' will still see me as the 20 year old they fell in love with and the love will be forever strong. The butterflies will flutter and the pink in our cheeks will grow deeper. The sparks will fly as high as the CN tower. Every word, every touch, every look will be filled with love. I will not settle and so you. You don't settle for love because it is just too beautiful a thing. Love isn't a rare find I promise you. All you need is hope, faith, trust and patience. Be a good person and an even better person will find you and love you till eternity. Love is a beautiful. I pray you and I all find it. 

I❤️